Friday, May 16, 2008

One Degree of Separation

So, I’m sitting in the hotel bar last night (no jokes about “big surprise there” allowed) with my associate Michael Martin here in San Francisco and was reminded once more what a freakishly small world it is. We struck up a conversation with a man named John MacDonald from Glasgow. He was hilarious and entertaining and turned out to be a cellular biologist working in Montreal. We chatted for an hour or so before another gentleman joined us at the bar. He overheard our conversation and asked John where he went to school. It turns out that he was from the UK, also a cellular biologist and that they both went to Washington University in St. Louis and did their post-doctorate work under the same professor – just a decade apart. How is it that in a random dive hotel bar off Union Square two men who literally spent years of their life in the same classrooms would intersect? Odd.

That same day in the trade show booth, we started talking to the folks in the adjacent space. One of the women in that booth was from Chicago but after speaking with her, she stated that she had lived in Denver. When Michael asked more about the where’s and when’s he discovered that they actually had lived within a block of each other and had common friends – again that one degree just temporally displaced.

What’s the point of these musings? I suppose that it is just interesting that in this vast and incredibly overcrowded world we live in that the threads of our lives and past can intertwine in these myriad ways. As cliché as the “six degrees of separation” term has become it has a firm foundation in truth. I guess one of the cool things about being obnoxiously outgoing is that you can really discover those connections. So the next time you are standing next to someone in line, strike up a conversation – you never know who you might run into!

2 comments:

Viva said...

Benzai,
I've noticed this phenomenon quite a bit. My best friend in 6th through 8th grades in Goleta, CA was a girl I only met at age 10. But we were both born in the same hospital in Chicago, IL, with the same doctor attending our moms, 5 months apart. Her family moved immediately to southern California, while we moved 10 years later. Weird...and that is only one of several such stories. The world can indeed be a small place. I'm glad you are one of those who can chat folks up and get their stories. I probably have missed some good ones over the years due to shyness, but living in the south is curing me of that! Well, that plus being a parent, which seems a surefire way to start conversations, at least with other parents.
Cheers!

Viva said...

You need to update this thing... no post Obama/Clinton slugfest post?

For shame.